Release the need to control to find peace.
Where in your life do you feel the need to control? Are you demanding things be your way? Getting upset when things don’t go your way? Fearful because you think life “should” be a way you want?
Let go…release the need to control. When we are attempting to “make things go my way”, we are forcing others to do what we want, or forcing a situation to happen that isn’t happening. Release…let go the need to control.
When we recognize when we are in a need to control, we can stop, and figure out why we feel that way. Has it just always been that way, so you feel it should be the same as it always was? Are you being manipulative in some way? Are you using emotional manipulation? How about physical manipulation? Again, ask yourself why you feel the need to control it. Perhaps you feel you are losing control. Well, guess what…that’s actually a good thing.
When we feel we are losing control, it actually opens us to releasing the need to control, we allows us to more freely let it go. And, when you actually can lose the need to control, a whole new world of opportunities opens up. I whole new way of looking at the world opens up. And, this is how you go with the flow. When you move with the flow of life, the flow of others, you can find your inner peace.
We do not have to LIKE something to release the need to control it. We only have to accept it as what is right now, and then using that peace, find your new way in the world by asking yourself what CAN i do? What CAN I control? Well, you have probably heard others say it, and me say it if you follow me, you ONLY truly have control of you. You have control of your words, thoughts, actions and feelings. Yes, even feelings. And, when we truly believe this, the peace then flows. When we are in a state of peace, we help ourselves, as well as, those around us.
May peace be with you! ??? ~ Heather
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