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Emotional Messages

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Our emotions sends us messages.

Emotional reactions provide a starting point where healing can begin. Our emotional reactions are a key area to investigate to start the healing process. These emotions can tell us where hidden hurts may exist, or still exist, that need to be healed so we can transform from them to move forward in life. These hidden hurts often create blockages in our lives. We need to release these blockages to help us heal and ascend from them, allowing ourselves to be free from the past.  Energy work (like Reiki or Akashic Records readings) is a powerful tool to help remove these blockages. When we have powerful emotional reactions to someone or something, it can be linked back to some type of trauma or unresolved issue within us.

Being defensive is another way to see what needs to be healed within ourselves. For instance, if we become upset if someone isn’t listening to us, it may be that we don’t feel as if anyone has ever listened to us, or that we don’t appear to be important to them. Or maybe we become angry if someone is judging us in a critical way.  Maybe someone lashes out at you for doing something they think is “wrong”.  Whatever it is that gives us a strong emotional reaction, gives us a hint to our inner emotional, mental or spiritual wounds. We can take the time to step away from the situation to ponder the reasoning behind our reactions. Remember the action or reaction of the other person is their own personal issue…not ours. This gives us a starting point on what we are still holding onto which is not for our highest good.

We can examine ourselves as to why we are having this reaction. This allows us to start determining the root cause of our own issue. We may ask ourselves “Have we done this to others, so we feel guilty?” Or perhaps we grew up with others telling us we didn’t know what we were talking about, so we didn’t feel important, and perhaps still feel that way. Perhaps we were told we couldn’t do something when we really wanted to do it as a child, or even a grown adult! Maybe we were ignored, hidden or told to remain silent, as children were to be seen, not heard.  Maybe we were told to “grow up” when we really needed a hug and someone to listen to us.  Maybe we were told to calm down, when we just really needed to get the excess energy out of our systems. Or something else entirely. When we recognize the issue, we can then work through it, going within to fully understand and release it. We unknowingly accept beliefs as children or even as we grow up that are not in our best interests.  We accept opinions of others as our understanding of life or ourselves. These are not necessarily our true truths, or our soul truths. This is where healing begins. This is where we can change our beliefs and opinions of ourselves. This is how we  begin our transformation after an awakening.  We awaken to the issue, recognize where it is somehow harming us or holding us back, release it and change the beliefs, opinions and thoughts around it, others and ourselves. 

Healing continues as we run into other experiences or similar situations and recognize our emotional reactions as our own issues more quickly to release the emotion and keep healing. A similar situation may bring up another issue attached to the same situation, or a deeper layer of that issue. It can bring up another issue attached to that experience. Being told something hurtful is some way can lead to multiple beliefs, some of them that are hidden until we can figure them out, which is why similar instances will happen to us.

Life provides us the people, situations and experiences to give us messages as to how we can awaken, heal and transform ourselves, which allows us to vibrate at a higher frequency of Love.  The higher our vibrations, the more we attract others vibrating at the same frequency, bringing different lessons, but also a higher understanding of who we are at our soul level.  These people will support us, encourage us and allow us to become more soulfully empowered, living our truth, our authenticity and our true soul purpose.  This brings a new way of life and perspective.  This new perspective can bring us more Joy, more Peace and more Love.  It brings us wisdom and knowledge to utilize to continue living in this different state, not being as affected by others around us, somehow living and vibrating above it all. It helps us to continue forward with strength, courage and motivation, continuing our lives in the best possible way for us. It can lead us to a deeper understanding that we are a soul having an experience as a human to allow the soul to advance, shedding all that it is not required to hold onto any longer. Yes, we will still have lessons and other issues to contend with, yet when they arrive, we have fresh eyes allowing us to fully accept ourselves and be more open to further change if we find it is our soul truth at that time. 

Our emotions are key messages to help us learn, transform and awaken a more brilliant version of ourselves,  bringing us more fully into our soul empowerment. Are you ready to start understanding your emotional reactions? Are you ready to release the old to live the new?  I’m available to help you along your journey.  Please message me at heatherclang@yahoo.com to book a free 15 minute consultation or to book an appointment. 

Namaste! ~ Heather

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Venus Retrograde Oct. 5, 2018

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Are you ready to dive into your watery depths of emotions attached to love, money, relationships, self-worth, career and beauty?

My latest article written for The Wellness Universe​! It’s all about love and money…and our relationships to love and money, what needs to be released and healed to be transformed to awaken more of your authentic truth, allowing you to live your dreams, wishes and soul purpose!  See the link below.

This transit lasts from Oct. 5 until Nov. 16, 2018. Venus has a shadow period of a month before and a month after.  A shadow period is the time of slowing down before the Retrograde, and then, a time of ramping back up.  It’s the flow of the energy to start showing you where you may want to address issues in the areas Venus rules, go within and transform, heal, release and reassess each facet of what is not working in your life in these areas.  The Retrograde can reveal the underlying issue, fear or hurt so it can be let go. And, then, a time to allow the new understanding to be absorbed to allow the new to flow to you, working with the Universe to attain all you desire. All of this allowing you to plan and work towards a more awakened and authentic soul life.

This entire year has been all about the inner self for healing, releasing, transforming and awakening your authenticity to allow you to live your true soul purpose. Are you ready?

Namaste! ❤ ~ Heather

https://blog.thewellnessuniverse.com/venus-retrograde-2018-go-within/

 

 

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Live in Peace

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Live in Peace with Love in every way, every day.

Living in Peace starts with cultivating Love within yourself and for yourself. When you discover the feeling of Divine Love within you, you can radiate it outwards, touching others with the energy of Peace with Love. To me, Peace & Love go hand-in-hand. You must have Love to create peace. Starting with you, allows you to see your self with clear eyes, allows you to accept yourself as you are, and allows you to release old beliefs, thoughts and opinions, transforming them and creating new ones all about Love to radiate Peace. And, once you are seeing and living in Peace with Love, you are more able to see others clearly, accepting others just as they are. We are told to treat each other as we would treat ourselves. And, in life I have seen others treat others as they treat themselves in ways that are hurtful, as many haven’t discovered the magic in truly loving themselves. It is so important to create Peace every way in every day to heal, transform and awaken the Divine Love that already exists within you to allow you to flow easily and effortlessly with Peace.

If I can assist you in your healing and soul journey, please contact me at: HeatherCLang@yahoo.com. I’m offering free 15 minute consultations. If you book a one hour session, in September or October, I’m offering $15 off. One hour session for $60 instead of $75, for both new and current clients. Let’s remove and uncover issues, thoughts and beliefs that can be released so you can become “Become Soulfully Empowered™” to live in Peace with Love.

Namaste! ~ Heather
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Truth of Love & June Special!

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Illuminate the Truth of Love.

We are in a new era, a new space and a new way of Being. The energies we have been given to integrate are about Truth through Love. Already this year, we’ve had two blue moons, two eclipses, a potent spring equinox, plus intense solar flares and planetary alignments increasing our need to heal and release to return to harmony, balance, Light and Love.  This is a Master 11 year, bringing in more Divine energies, balance and light portals. We have three more eclipses coming this year to shake things up even further. Plus, Saturn is in it’s home sign of Capricorn. I have written about the Master 11 year, plus the eclipses we’ve had so far in these two articles on The Wellness Universe:

http://blog.thewellnessuniverse.com/2018-master-number-11-year/

http://blog.thewellnessuniverse.com/super-blue-moon-eclipse-january-31-2018/

Stay tuned for my article on the next three eclipses coming up towards the end of May, as they occur June, July & August!

It’s a powerful year of illuminating the Truth of Love through awakening and seeking Truth, connecting to the Divine Love within and around us all, while also becoming your Truth and your authentic self, following your Divine Soul Purpose. 

We are in need of more Love to counteract the opposite. Love must be the answer to everything and everyone. We are here to heal ourselves, illuminate our inner truth to shine our Love. Our authentic soul selves are wanting to break through our barriers, leap over obstacles and wash away anything that is not Love & Light. It is time to Awaken our inner Truth, to fuel the world with Love and all it encompasses. Kindness, compassion, understanding, unity, gentleness, joy, peace, harmony and balance. It is time to “Become Soulfully Empowered™”, to empower ourselves, those around us and thus the world.

This year I have been working more on myself, as healing continues as long as we are living on more profound levels. I have been blessed with new clients. I have received more awareness and awakening to even deeper Universal Truths. I’ve spent time in meditation, and healing sessions. Through all of this, I continue to rise and increase my vibration. I help funnel out and transform the energies around me which are not of Love & Light. I am a balancer of injustices and energies bringing more harmony to my surroundings. I am learning, growing, transforming and becoming even more authentic. I am seeing layers of interconnectedness, understanding the intricacies and feeling the similarities of all types of beliefs. I AM being the Truth of Love.

Are you ready to Illuminate your Truth of Love? I’m available for 15-20 minute consultations to discuss how I can help you. Contact me here ~ goo.gl/5WBgc5 ~ I’m looking forward to hearing from you.

June Special!  Schedule one hour session in June for only $65!  (Normally $75 for an hour.) Or, schedule a half hour session for only $35 (normally $40). Sessions can be any services ~ Reiki, Akashic Records Reading, Tarot Card Reading or Intuitive Life Guidance. Contact me on the above link to schedule an appointment.  I look forward to helping you heal, uncover your Divine Truth of Love.

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New Moon Partial Solar Eclipse February 15, 2018

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This new moon partial solar eclipse is the only lunar event this month, as February has no full moons.  This is also the bookend to the Super Blue Full Moon Total Eclipse on January 31st.

This one is all about love, relationships and communication!

The energies in the Universe are part of our lessons, and provide us clues to what we need to work on in our lives to learn, heal & transform.  They awaken something within us at the right time bringing our attention to it for consideration, transformation and enlightenment, especially eclipses! (And we have three more this year in June, July & August.) That is why astrological events are so important to follow and learn about.  Click on the link below to learn all about this one!

I am now offering a 15 minute FREE exploratory phone call so we can chat about how I can help you both navigate the energies and learn how to “Become Soulfully Empowered™”!

Namaste! ~ Heather

http://blog.thewellnessuniverse.com/new-moon-partial-solar-eclipse-february-15-2018/?utm_campaign=shareaholic&utm_medium=twitter&utm_source=socialnetwork

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Grounding into Higher Consciousness

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Stay Grounded while being in a higher consciousness.

Giraffe Wisdom. Like the Giraffe, we need to have both feet firmly planted on the ground, while also raising up to see from a higher perspective, perceptions and even different realms and realities. Giraffe can see far into the distance. Combining the higher realities with this higher perception can allow us to see into our own future. We can tune into our inner compass with this higher perspective, helping us on our soul journey, walking the direction we are intended to go on the path meant for us….the path our soul has already chosen.

We are meant to live this human life, being grounded in our own authenticity. Our authenticity stems from our soul’s purpose, our beliefs, our gifts and our true heart’s desires. Connecting the higher consciousness and into the higher vibrational energies of the Divine with the human mind provides us the information we require to move intentionally, mindfully and in our best interests. It essentially tells us what is coming and what to do about it. Now, it is important to note, the use of the word “mind” is not intended to denote your brain. It is your whole Being. Our minds exist in our brain, but also in our entire physical body and outside of our physical body in our energetic light fields, including emotional, mental, physical, spiritual, karmic, etheric, causal and so on. For instance, our bodies will send a pain signal to our brain. It is the physical mind working for our best interests to help us help ourselves.

Let’s say this pain is in our lower back.  It could be arthritis, spinal mis-alignment, or perhaps disc issues.  The physical manifestation is an energetic issue we need to address. We may take pain killers, or see a chiropractor.  This helps to tend to the physical pain.  However, this does not dig deep into the issue of why it manifested in the first place.  Our lower backs help support our core. We may have pain here because we do not feel supported, or are worried about being supported. We may be carrying around issues from past lives when we weren’t supported, and after multiple lives with this issue, the energy manifested as a physical dis-ease to really make us aware of the issue so we can work on healing it.  The lower back area is also near our sacral chakra.  Our sacral chakra is about passions and creativity.  You may not be living your passions or using your creative gifts.  You may have issues around sexual intimacy from this life or past lives. Again, the physical manifestation is a clue to the underlying issue to be healed. Therefore, staying grounded in the now, while rising into the higher consciousness allows us to access our intuition to help us understand the issue which caused this manifestation in our best interests to learn the soul lesson.

Our best interests are those life lessons and situations to help us heal from the past, bringing us more awareness and wisdom to transform and awaken further into higher energetic vibrations. Each of these energetic light bodies, encapsulate our combined past and past lives, and anything which manifests in our consciousness, or our minds, as thoughts, words or feelings, is something we need to be aware of, attend to and discover the underlying issue of where it began to allow us to release and heal it so we can transform and awaken. The more we are able to do this, the more we will ascend to the higher vibrations and consciousness levels. The grounding effect is being aware of our total Being within the knowledge we are Light, we are a soul, we are Divine and this is where the higher consciousness exists. This is where our souls want us to Be.

If I may be of assistance, Reiki energy sessions can help you on your path to being grounded in a higher consciousness level and reality. In the sessions, I connect to your energy, assisting you in being aware, mindful and open to discovering and understanding your situations and issues meant to help you in your healing journey. This can jumpstart you and your intuition or add to your energy to help you “Become Soulfully Empowered™”.

Namaste! ~ Heather


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Self-Love

Self-Love is not Selfish.

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Selfishness is not the same thing as Self-Love. You were warned not to be selfish when you were younger, like when you wouldn’t share your toys with others. Selfish is being concerned only with yourself and no one else. It’s ego-driven, as you attempt to gain material goods, use others for your own gain, and think you are far superior to others due to your talents, knowledge, actions and more, while looking down on others as “beneath you”. Selfishness is not considering or caring about the needs, thoughts, wishes, or emotions of others. It is being completely self-absorbed.  It is thinking your way is the only way. It is helping others only to receive something in return. It can take many forms, both blatant or subtle, which makes it important to be able to discern the truth to understand whether someone is of Love or hasn’t yet arrived into a state of Love.

At times we may feel selfish when we are exhausted, famished, angry or hurt, and we lash out, clam up or sink into ourselves. This is not true selfishness, but a sign we need self-love as our emotions are letting us know we need to address our own issue, go within, process, release and heal from the situation creating our emotional reaction. This helps us move forward in life, connecting to our inner selves, our higher selves and our heart center.

Self-Love is Self-Care, Self-Nuturing, Self-Compassion, Self-Kindness and more.

Self-Love is taking care of your needs to allow you to be whole and healthy. It’s loving yourself enough to be confident in your thoughts, words and actions, yet expressing openness, compassion and understanding for those of others. It is taking the time to eat healthy, exercise, meditate, and heal physically, mentally & emotionally, to be completely authentic. It is knowing when you need to rest, versus pushing into exhaustion for others. It is sharing your gifts with others to help them and yourself. It is knowing you create your own happiness, peace & Love.

Self-Love is being a kind, loving and caring human being to you, and all around you, including all of Nature. It is recognizing while you are an individual, unique soul, you are also part of the One, and what you do to another, is done to you. It is choosing positive actions, thoughts and words to help you and everyone around you. As thoughts, words and actions are all energy. We are all energy, sharing, giving and exchanging energy all the time. Choosing positive, love-filled energy to share and give is our purpose. Moving into a more love-centered world is our purpose. Our purpose includes unique gifts and talents all our own, yet it is still to share and give them with Love.

Self-Love is all about going back to Love, and living Love more and more. It is pausing to ask yourself what is the motivation behind my words, thoughts and actions? Ego or Love driven? If ego, it is time to discover why and heal from it, allowing the heart, or Love to lead you, versus the ego. It is being aware and open enough to listen more than speak, both to others and your higher self, your Divine Center, your soul. Self-Love is understanding and listening more to your truth, than that of others, although being wise enough to listen to others’ beliefs to see if it resonates with you in some way. It is seeking knowledge for growth, wisdom and transformation to “Awaken a more brilliant version of you™” to give and share of your true self, while having the discernment to know who else lives with Self-Love. As we connect more with others who are living in Love with Self-Love, we increase this energy to share with others who need it the most. We are creating a wave of wondrous Love, transforming ourselves, and showing others how to transform themselves.

I’d be honored to help you discover, deepen and shine your Self-Love through healing, transformation and awakening your authenticity to live in Love.

Namaste! ❤ ~ Heather

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New Beginnings

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New beginnings start with an open heart.

Many of us are wishing for new beginnings, yet we are still living yesterday’s beliefs. Or, we may be blocking ourselves in some way by not understanding or speaking our inner truth. Or perhaps we are not healing from the past. Or perhaps we aren’t living our authenticity which encompasses our inner truths, beliefs and opinions. We may be lying to ourselves in some way, thinking or feeling what others tell us to do. When this type of old energy is still within us, it closes off our heart. We repeat the same patterns, which become more intense each and every time. We can lose something or someone which we didn’t want to happen. A job, a career, a place to live or a myriad of other situations. Or perhaps a relationship has changed in some way, whether colleague, family or friend. It could be over so a new and different relationship more suited for you can come in with a new person or the same one. Perhaps the relationship is becoming stronger  and better, or is transitioning into something even more profound and wonderful. By learning the lessons and both parties working on themselves, forgiving themselves and healing to transform and awaken, it can bring in even more love & light.

Our heart is the center of our intuitiveness, the communication center for our higher selves and the basis of who we truly are at our inner core. By not removing the blockages, healing from past traumas or painful experiences and learning from them to live in a new way, those new beginnings will still be waiting on you. You may think you are receiving something or someone new, but it is most likely a similar experience which can be more difficult to deal with to push you into releasing and healing. Because it is important to remember the Law of Attraction…who you are, is what you attract; what you send out is what you attract. You also may still be living in fear, whether it is fear of love, fear of success, fear of trusting or a huge array of many others fears. This is why it is so important to heal yourself.

To fully release the old, we need to dig deep and relive what we may have buried or ignored. It may be difficult and painful, yet, if we keep it inside, it will reveal itself in a different manner, creating havoc in our lives. The manifestation of something old you no longer need may reveal itself in discomfort, dis-ease, imbalance in the body or mind or in a ton of different ways. Once you have recognized the blockages, worked through them and heal, your heart will open, causing you to be more in tune with your soul. And, with the open heart and better connection to your soul, new opportunities will flow allowing the brilliant new beginnings to happen as you awaken more and more. Trusting is a key ingredient. Trusting in your strength, resilience and motivation in your heart & soul. The one who you should trust most is you. Putting trust in another by sharing your fears, concerns, worries or hurts only strengthens the trust you have in you. And, if the other person holds you only in love, you have found a treasured relationship indeed. Otherwise, you have learned a powerful, wonderful lesson.

This past year, 2016 has been one of endings, helping us to prepare for the new 9 year cycle. 2016 adds up to “9” which represents endings.  You may have experienced some pretty intense endings this year in your life. The good news is that 2017 is a “1” year. A “1” year brings many new, fresh, positive opportunities, experiences and relationships. It brings fresh, as well as new energy to our existing lives, relationships and more. It helps us open our heart even more to help us on our true soul path, living our soul purpose as we attract what we most desire. It can help us open our heart to something me may have missed before, whether a job, person, home, or place. Endings are intended for new beginnings, both which can be with the same situation or person, or a completely different one. Be aware of how this past year has changed you or brought you change. Learn how it has created something different by releasing something or someone. Ponder the lessons you have learned or were meant to learn, and can now take to heart to heal you. Consider why and what you can do to transform yourself from the experience into a more brilliant version of you.  These “9” years are intended to open us up to more awareness of what we truly wish to have in our lives, and how to receive them by releasing the old either easily, or not so much.

This year is also ending with a Mercury Retrograde, which lasts until January 8, 2017. It is connecting the old year and the new year, allowing us to fully release the old, while moving into the new. Mercury Retrograde provides us the time to truly review our lives and to allow us to recognize and change what is needed within us and around us. Happening at the end of the year, increases this energy in intensity. It helps us release even more of what is holding us back from our true life purpose, true love, true happiness and true harmony. What we yearn for wishes to come to us, and the Universe and Spirit is helping us achieve it by bringing us the lessons and endings we need to allow our dreams to come true. By opening our hearts to this energy, it opens our hearts to acceptance, awareness and availability for both the past lessons, as well as, the incredible new experiences waiting for us to be ready.

Wait until Mercury Retrograde is over to begin your new plans, goals, intentions, wishes and lists.  I suggest January 11, 2017, which gives Mercury energy a few days to move forward again.  This is a powerful day of “1” energy.  January is the first month of the year, the 11th day is represented by double “1”, and the year is a “1” year. This is an excellent day to meditate, and connect with your intuition, your higher self, and soul.  Meditation will help you listen to your inner compass, your soul. Then on this day, you can begin to create your new year and new life, to manifest your true soul purpose by living your passions. You have the strength within you to share your gifts and talents with the world, whether they are music, sales, healing or other creative pursuits.

This past year has brought me the opportunity for intense healing, transition and transformation by awakening me to lessons I needed to learn. It has helped intensify my understanding of my unique gifts.  I have learned even more profoundly that I am my own person, and because I love to help others, I was given the chance to help myself through using many of the services I offer, plus others.  I worked with Reiki energy, meditations, the Akashic Records and more to help me heal from an intense period of my life. It has reinforced in me how much I love helping others help and heal themselves.  It’s why I started doing yoga nearly 17 years ago, why I became a Reiki Master nearly 5 years ago, and why I have always been very interested in health & wellness and alternative ways of healing, thinking and believing. It’s why I have chosen to be in the Spiritual Aspects of Healing through my services. If you are ready to move forward to heal yourself, and open your heart to new beginnings, I’d be honored to help you “Awaken a more brilliant version of you™” today and in the new year. I know I am looking forward to all the incredible new opportunities waiting for me in 2017. Are you ready?

To your open heart, new beginnings, new life and more…

Cheers, Happy New Year & Namaste!

Heather

You may wish to read my latest blog on The Wellness Universe ~ “5 of My Favorite Power Crystals” ~ http://blog.thewellnessuniverse.com/5-of-my-favorite-power-crystals/

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September: The month to Release

I am honored to have written this blog especially for The Wellness Universe!

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Astrologically, energetically and numerology wise, this September is THE month for releasing the old resentments, anger, hurts, pains, jealousies and more.

Next year, we move into a One year, and the number one is all about beginnings. However, without releasing the old and healing ourselves from it, we will remain in the old.

Read the entire blog to learn more ~ http://blog.thewellnessuniverse.com/september-the-month-to-release/#utm_sguid=173885,c1b31d7d-0301-b981-e84e-ad21020d970a

Namaste! ~ Heather

Reiki Master, Akashic Record & Tarot/Oracle Card Reader, Intuitive Guide, Yoga Instructor, Ordained Minister, Co-Creator of Positive Change in The Wellness Universe, Young Living Essential Oils Distributor

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©2016

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Make Time for Love

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Make time for what and who you love.

How busy are you? Are you making excuses? Are those excuses about “not enough time?” Do you know what you would prefer to be doing given all the time in the world?

We have as much time as we need for what we love to do and who we love. Many of us have to work, yet many of us are still working too much. We think we need more “stuff” to be happy, so we spend more time making money to get more “stuff”. Is this “stuff” making you happier? Or is it filling a hole? What hole is it filling? Are you lonely?  Feeling unloved or unworthy? Are you craving attention to boost your self-confidence?  Perhaps you are fearful of understanding yourself and working all the time keeps you from thinking about your own issues? Whatever the case may be, it’s important to know we need a healthy relationship with our selves by making time for ourselves.  We also need to know it’s healthy to interact and enjoy time with those we love.

If we are not making time for what we love to do and who we love in our lives, it’s time to ask why. It is easy to get caught up in the “to-do” list. But what is on your “to-do” list? Is it ego fulfilling or soul fulfilling?  Ego-fulfilling items can be doing what society thinks we should be doing.  Working harder to prove we are hard-workers. Between our home, families and work, we can always find something to do. Then we tend to talk about how busy we are doing all these things.  Well, what about doing something soul fulfilling?  Something which makes you truly happy?  Maybe it’s exercising for the joy you find it (versus it being a chore on your to-do list), like walking through the park or along a beach, doing yoga or playing in a pool. Perhaps it’s playing a round of golf with friends. Maybe it’s going to a movie, playing a game with your kids, any arts & crafts, sitting quietly, meditating or going for a leisurely drive and letting the energy take you somewhere new to discover.  Any of these can be soul-fulfilling, and while doing them you may uncover or discover a passion you forgot about.  This passion could lead you to your life purpose, which you may be able to turn into your career.  And, having a career doing what we love is making time for what we love to do.

We all know in this 3D world we have our bills, need food and shelter, however, what choices are you making that are not in line with balance and enjoying your life? What is unhealthy for you mind, body or soul?  How can you change it?  If you do not like your job, are you searching for a new one or perhaps building your own business more in line with your passions?

Another question to ask yourself is “are you loving your to-do list?” How many times have you caught yourself doing something on your list versus Being in the moment? If you are so ingrained on getting things done, you aren’t being in the now and most likely aren’t enjoying yourself. You may not like cleaning, and find yourself complaining to yourself while you do it.   While doing one thing, you may be thinking about the next thing you need to do, which causes us stress. Make that “to-do” list and think of something else you can do which is creating balance because it helps you in some way. Try playing music you enjoy, which is known to elevate our energy. Or incorporate something else like yoga poses.  I clean the floors while in Goddess Pose, which makes my body and soul feel better because I love yoga.  I incorporate others poses here and there as well as I move from one thing to the next. I also practice deep breathing exercises and meditation while doing home chores. Combining our to-do list with what we love can really help us find time for what we love.

Can remember how often you may use the phrase “I don’t have the time” or “I’m too tired.” Next time ask yourself “Why am I not making time for myself or my loved ones?” and “Why am I so tired?” Ask yourself “Why is it important to me to be doing things from my to-do list versus (insert a fun activity)?”  Determine if you are truly tired and need to rest, or if you need a boost of energy by doing something you love. When we dig deep, we can find issues we may not want to face, but by facing them, we can heal them and let them go. “Busy work” is often a band-aid for something we do not want to face within ourselves. It keeps the focus from us, tiring us out, so we do not have to think about our internal “problems.”  However, the more we can dive within to deal with and heal from our issues, we reveal another layer of our authenticity. When we live our truth, or our authenticity, we attract more opportunities we would love to do, as well as, more people we would love to spend time with, as they are seeing us for our true selves.  Therefore, we are creating and manifesting time to do what we love to do, while also creating time to spend with those we love.

Perhaps it’s time to re-evaluate the to-do list and create a different list. Perhaps the list can be named the “Love List”. List all the things you love to do and all the people in your life with whom you wish to spend time. Start carving out time in your days to accomplish your “love list”. Note, it’s important that we are not checking off items like a “to-do” list, but creating time and a life in which we can enjoy all the things and people we love more often, through healing, awakening our authenticity and living the life we love.

What’s on your “love list”? I’d love to hear about it!

Namaste! 

Heather 

Reiki Master, Akashic Record & Tarot/Oracle Card Reader, Intuitive Guide, Yoga Instructor, Ordained Minister, Co-Creator of Positive Change in The Wellness Universe, Young Living Essential Oils Distributor

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