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Challenge Your Beliefs

Slide1Have you ever stopped yourself in mid-thought, and then thought “Why am I thinking this?”  Perhaps it’s an opinion, belief or understanding you’ve had that suddenly, doesn’t make sense to you anymore? Perhaps it doesn’t feel right any longer?

About 14 years ago, 1-2 years after I was divorced, I was sitting in my church at mass, and I heard the priest state “…The ONLY Son of God.”  And, out of the blue…I thought “What?”  How can Jesus Christ be the ONLY Son of God, when WE are also told we are ALL Sons and Daughters of God? Suddenly, I thought to myself…”this doesn’t make sense anymore.”  If you know me now, you know I believe in many different, spiritual teachers spiritual entities and deities, including Christ and more.  I believe we all have the Divine within us, and are all a fraction of this Divine energy, therefore, all connected to each other as One. To me, it’s all about spirituality and oneness, learning to work with each other with our unique gifts.  Anyway, what’s very interesting to me as I look back upon that experience, is how did I not challenge that belief before that specific time?

I grew up with religion, astrology and metaphysical understandings in my life. Yet, it was that moment in time, when my life had a very profound shift in my beliefs. I was on autopilot at church! I had been accepting what the Catholic Church told me as my Truth without question. Before this moment, I had challenged the marriage contract where my belief was “it should not be broken.”  I believed that with my whole being, which caused me a lot of stress. A very wise woman asked me “if he is not honoring the contract, why are you?” My ex-husband (not to take his inventory for those who may be offended by my next words), abused drugs and alcohol. He was hardly ever home, as since I was not accepting of his lifestyle, which was hidden from me, until we were already married, by him and his family.  Once married, he stayed away from me to be with his friends who would party with him.  He had talked himself into saying it was okay to be doing coke because he worked long hours and he needed to stay awake. Basically, he really wasn’t participating in the marriage.

Anyway, when I challenged the marriage contract, I was still rather upset and nervous about it, as I am a person of my word. My wise counselor helped, but what really helped was when we told my Grandma.  By, “we”, I mean my mother and I.  My Mom thought my Grandma would be super upset due to her religious beliefs.  But, we were very surprised by what she said. She told me “honey, if he isn’t being good to you, and you aren’t happy, then you do what makes you happy.”  It was like someone took the shackles off my mind surrounding marriage. Now, I also believe people should try to work out their differences, and we both had went to counseling, however, in my circumstance, it didn’t bring us help, but helped me start to heal.

So, I am sitting in church, with my sudden revelation, and also felt free of being a hypocrite sitting there, a divorced woman. I was no longer some pariah, or feeling as though I should be shunned, as women have been through-out history for divorce, or being “tossed out” by their husband.  And we, as women, carry this around in our energy from previous lifetimes and our ancestors. I’ve released many of this now through working with my personal Akashic Records, and releasing with Reiki and other energy work.  Talk about Freedom!  I walked out that day and felt very happy. I haven’t returned to a formal church sermon since then, although I know they can bring lots of good to people.  I loved the singing, and the community, but I was no longer vibrating at that frequency.

Even prior to the revelation, I had been doing yoga, and read all sorts of alternative self-help books, had been going to Al-Anon, and absorbed as much information and knowledge as I could. I kept it up during and after the divorce. Others started noticing a huge difference in me after the divorce.  They saw me as happier.  I was actually radiating a pure happiness. Others had always told me they felt a calmness around me, and I made them “feel better” by just being around, but now there was a different level of it.  True, I was no longer stressed by the marriage, but I was also working on healing myself, which brings upped my vibration.

I have dated others and I have not yet met my Divine Partner, but each has taught me more to heal and transform myself.  I know it is imperative to continue my healing journey and Divine Order and Timing will take care of the rest. Relationships are definitely a wonderful way to learn about yourself. Having an Akashic Records reading to understand contracts with people in your life is definitely a wonderful tool.  I have a friend who had multiple readings with me and has cleared out a lot of karma! As once you know what the karma is about, you can use energy work, like Reiki, to remove the energy cords and blockages. The last relationship I had was one of the most powerful ones to really give me a huge energetic push to do more energy healing work on myself and receive energy work from others. I continue on my healing journey and my soul path, and am thankful of the wisdom I have gained through many different types of relationships through-out my life.

If you would like assistance to release past karma, old beliefs and relationships, which no longer serve you, Please contact me for a reading or session.  15 minute free consultations are available.

Love & Light! ~ Heather

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Announcement: Heather’s Happenings February 2019

Slide1Hello to all my blog followers!

I am pleased to announce I am starting a newsletter via this blog  (for now).

When the blog says, “Heather’s Happenings Month Year”, (for instance: Heather’s Happenings February 2019), you will be able to discover any special pricing or programs I have available, group sessions or workshops, plus know my schedule and what openings I have for sessions (Reiki, Akashic Records Readings, Tarot Readings or Intuitive Life Guidance) each month, while available.

Please note, all sessions  or workshops can be done via phone (I have an iPhone, therefore FaceTime available, as well) or Skype.

First, in general, I work in a restaurant 5 days a week.  Therefore, my days off, and the best days to schedule sessions are Sundays and Tuesdays (again, for now). My time zone is Eastern Standard Time. Some mornings available depending on my restaurant schedule.

Secondly, I work with a dear friend, who is also a Reiki Master, one Sunday a month.  These are very unique and helpful sessions.  We have only 6 appointments available, which fill up quickly, as the session includes two Reiki Masters working on you for the small investment of $45 (subject to change) for 30 minutes. Distance, Phone or Skype sessions available.  We are calling these “Reiki Refresh & Renew sessions”. For more information on Reiki, please see my blog ~ “Reiki is…”

February Happenings: 

February 17, 2019 ~ Reiki Refresh & Renew Sessions (email me for appointment availability); $45 per half hour with two Reiki Masters

Available sessions in February: 

Sunday, February 10, 2019: 1pm EST, 2pm EST, 3pm EST

Tuesday, February 12, 2019:  2pm EST, 3pm EST, 4pm EST

Tuesday February 19, 2019: 2pm EST, 3pm EST, 4pm EST

Sunday February 24, 2019: 1pm EST, 2pm EST, 3pm EST

Pricing: 30 minutes for $40 or 60 minutes for $75; for those who book at least one 60 minute session per month, receive 60 minutes for $60 each month.

Please see my contact page to contact me to schedule your session. Free 15 minutes consultations available on the available session days, as well.

Contact me at HeatherCLang@yahoo.com for more information or to schedule an appointment or free 15 minute consultation.

Today’s Thought:  It’s a New Moon in Aquarius!  Set your intentions, change your thoughts to create your new Reality & Embrace New Opportunities!

Love & Light,

Heather

 

 

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Emotional Messages

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Our emotions sends us messages.

Emotional reactions provide a starting point where healing can begin. Our emotional reactions are a key area to investigate to start the healing process. These emotions can tell us where hidden hurts may exist, or still exist, that need to be healed so we can transform from them to move forward in life. These hidden hurts often create blockages in our lives. We need to release these blockages to help us heal and ascend from them, allowing ourselves to be free from the past.  Energy work (like Reiki or Akashic Records readings) is a powerful tool to help remove these blockages. When we have powerful emotional reactions to someone or something, it can be linked back to some type of trauma or unresolved issue within us.

Being defensive is another way to see what needs to be healed within ourselves. For instance, if we become upset if someone isn’t listening to us, it may be that we don’t feel as if anyone has ever listened to us, or that we don’t appear to be important to them. Or maybe we become angry if someone is judging us in a critical way.  Maybe someone lashes out at you for doing something they think is “wrong”.  Whatever it is that gives us a strong emotional reaction, gives us a hint to our inner emotional, mental or spiritual wounds. We can take the time to step away from the situation to ponder the reasoning behind our reactions. Remember the action or reaction of the other person is their own personal issue…not ours. This gives us a starting point on what we are still holding onto which is not for our highest good.

We can examine ourselves as to why we are having this reaction. This allows us to start determining the root cause of our own issue. We may ask ourselves “Have we done this to others, so we feel guilty?” Or perhaps we grew up with others telling us we didn’t know what we were talking about, so we didn’t feel important, and perhaps still feel that way. Perhaps we were told we couldn’t do something when we really wanted to do it as a child, or even a grown adult! Maybe we were ignored, hidden or told to remain silent, as children were to be seen, not heard.  Maybe we were told to “grow up” when we really needed a hug and someone to listen to us.  Maybe we were told to calm down, when we just really needed to get the excess energy out of our systems. Or something else entirely. When we recognize the issue, we can then work through it, going within to fully understand and release it. We unknowingly accept beliefs as children or even as we grow up that are not in our best interests.  We accept opinions of others as our understanding of life or ourselves. These are not necessarily our true truths, or our soul truths. This is where healing begins. This is where we can change our beliefs and opinions of ourselves. This is how we  begin our transformation after an awakening.  We awaken to the issue, recognize where it is somehow harming us or holding us back, release it and change the beliefs, opinions and thoughts around it, others and ourselves. 

Healing continues as we run into other experiences or similar situations and recognize our emotional reactions as our own issues more quickly to release the emotion and keep healing. A similar situation may bring up another issue attached to the same situation, or a deeper layer of that issue. It can bring up another issue attached to that experience. Being told something hurtful is some way can lead to multiple beliefs, some of them that are hidden until we can figure them out, which is why similar instances will happen to us.

Life provides us the people, situations and experiences to give us messages as to how we can awaken, heal and transform ourselves, which allows us to vibrate at a higher frequency of Love.  The higher our vibrations, the more we attract others vibrating at the same frequency, bringing different lessons, but also a higher understanding of who we are at our soul level.  These people will support us, encourage us and allow us to become more soulfully empowered, living our truth, our authenticity and our true soul purpose.  This brings a new way of life and perspective.  This new perspective can bring us more Joy, more Peace and more Love.  It brings us wisdom and knowledge to utilize to continue living in this different state, not being as affected by others around us, somehow living and vibrating above it all. It helps us to continue forward with strength, courage and motivation, continuing our lives in the best possible way for us. It can lead us to a deeper understanding that we are a soul having an experience as a human to allow the soul to advance, shedding all that it is not required to hold onto any longer. Yes, we will still have lessons and other issues to contend with, yet when they arrive, we have fresh eyes allowing us to fully accept ourselves and be more open to further change if we find it is our soul truth at that time. 

Our emotions are key messages to help us learn, transform and awaken a more brilliant version of ourselves,  bringing us more fully into our soul empowerment. Are you ready to start understanding your emotional reactions? Are you ready to release the old to live the new?  I’m available to help you along your journey.  Please message me at heatherclang@yahoo.com to book a free 15 minute consultation or to book an appointment. 

Namaste! ~ Heather

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Go Super Full Moon Crazy!

shutterstock_349544210Delighted and happy to have been able to share my thoughts about this awesome Super Full Moon on Sunday, December 3, 2017 in an article I wrote for The Wellness Universe! See the link below to read the article.  

I hope everyone finds time to have some fun, while also re-inventing themselves to who they truly want to be!

Go Super Full Moon Crazy!
Namaste! ❤ ~ Heather

http://blog.thewellnessuniverse.com/go-super-full-moon-crazy/

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Grounding into Higher Consciousness

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Stay Grounded while being in a higher consciousness.

Giraffe Wisdom. Like the Giraffe, we need to have both feet firmly planted on the ground, while also raising up to see from a higher perspective, perceptions and even different realms and realities. Giraffe can see far into the distance. Combining the higher realities with this higher perception can allow us to see into our own future. We can tune into our inner compass with this higher perspective, helping us on our soul journey, walking the direction we are intended to go on the path meant for us….the path our soul has already chosen.

We are meant to live this human life, being grounded in our own authenticity. Our authenticity stems from our soul’s purpose, our beliefs, our gifts and our true heart’s desires. Connecting the higher consciousness and into the higher vibrational energies of the Divine with the human mind provides us the information we require to move intentionally, mindfully and in our best interests. It essentially tells us what is coming and what to do about it. Now, it is important to note, the use of the word “mind” is not intended to denote your brain. It is your whole Being. Our minds exist in our brain, but also in our entire physical body and outside of our physical body in our energetic light fields, including emotional, mental, physical, spiritual, karmic, etheric, causal and so on. For instance, our bodies will send a pain signal to our brain. It is the physical mind working for our best interests to help us help ourselves.

Let’s say this pain is in our lower back.  It could be arthritis, spinal mis-alignment, or perhaps disc issues.  The physical manifestation is an energetic issue we need to address. We may take pain killers, or see a chiropractor.  This helps to tend to the physical pain.  However, this does not dig deep into the issue of why it manifested in the first place.  Our lower backs help support our core. We may have pain here because we do not feel supported, or are worried about being supported. We may be carrying around issues from past lives when we weren’t supported, and after multiple lives with this issue, the energy manifested as a physical dis-ease to really make us aware of the issue so we can work on healing it.  The lower back area is also near our sacral chakra.  Our sacral chakra is about passions and creativity.  You may not be living your passions or using your creative gifts.  You may have issues around sexual intimacy from this life or past lives. Again, the physical manifestation is a clue to the underlying issue to be healed. Therefore, staying grounded in the now, while rising into the higher consciousness allows us to access our intuition to help us understand the issue which caused this manifestation in our best interests to learn the soul lesson.

Our best interests are those life lessons and situations to help us heal from the past, bringing us more awareness and wisdom to transform and awaken further into higher energetic vibrations. Each of these energetic light bodies, encapsulate our combined past and past lives, and anything which manifests in our consciousness, or our minds, as thoughts, words or feelings, is something we need to be aware of, attend to and discover the underlying issue of where it began to allow us to release and heal it so we can transform and awaken. The more we are able to do this, the more we will ascend to the higher vibrations and consciousness levels. The grounding effect is being aware of our total Being within the knowledge we are Light, we are a soul, we are Divine and this is where the higher consciousness exists. This is where our souls want us to Be.

If I may be of assistance, Reiki energy sessions can help you on your path to being grounded in a higher consciousness level and reality. In the sessions, I connect to your energy, assisting you in being aware, mindful and open to discovering and understanding your situations and issues meant to help you in your healing journey. This can jumpstart you and your intuition or add to your energy to help you “Become Soulfully Empowered™”.

Namaste! ~ Heather


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Peace Day 2017

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Send out Ripples of Peace to All, all ways, always.

Today is International Day of Peace, September 21, 2017!

It’s one day set aside to remember to be at Peace in all ways. Yet, we ALL need to be at Peace always…all days, all hours, all ways. Yes, we will have moments of anger, hurt, pain, sadness and so on, but these feelings are for us to understand ourselves to heal any issues connected to them. Once healed, we have awakened a bit more and can transform ourselves into a new version of ourselves, and return to Peace.

We can become empowered by learning our lessons from these emotions, helping our souls to ascend into a higher frequency where Peace exists always, all ways. And within this Divine Peace, is the Divine Light where Divine Love, Divine Joy, Divine Harmony and Divine Bliss exist. And, with this Divine Energy, comes the natural, Divine compassion, understanding, wisdom, knowledge, serenity, tranquility, kindness, balance, abundance and more that we ARE.

Being at Peace and returning to Peace through healing, awakening and transforming allows you to “Become Soulfully Empowered™” and use the Soul Power within you, which is part of the Divine energy and Universal Peace. You are Divine energy. You are a Divine Soul, manifested as Human. You have the power to be Peace, sending out Peace Ripples always, all ways.

I am included in today’s blog in The Wellness Universe, as well, with inspiring stories of kindness, love and peace.  Enjoy!

http://blog.thewellnessuniverse.com/one-ripple-celebration-peace-day-2017/

May Peace Be With You!

Namaste! ~ Heather

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Self-Love

Self-Love is not Selfish.

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Selfishness is not the same thing as Self-Love. You were warned not to be selfish when you were younger, like when you wouldn’t share your toys with others. Selfish is being concerned only with yourself and no one else. It’s ego-driven, as you attempt to gain material goods, use others for your own gain, and think you are far superior to others due to your talents, knowledge, actions and more, while looking down on others as “beneath you”. Selfishness is not considering or caring about the needs, thoughts, wishes, or emotions of others. It is being completely self-absorbed.  It is thinking your way is the only way. It is helping others only to receive something in return. It can take many forms, both blatant or subtle, which makes it important to be able to discern the truth to understand whether someone is of Love or hasn’t yet arrived into a state of Love.

At times we may feel selfish when we are exhausted, famished, angry or hurt, and we lash out, clam up or sink into ourselves. This is not true selfishness, but a sign we need self-love as our emotions are letting us know we need to address our own issue, go within, process, release and heal from the situation creating our emotional reaction. This helps us move forward in life, connecting to our inner selves, our higher selves and our heart center.

Self-Love is Self-Care, Self-Nuturing, Self-Compassion, Self-Kindness and more.

Self-Love is taking care of your needs to allow you to be whole and healthy. It’s loving yourself enough to be confident in your thoughts, words and actions, yet expressing openness, compassion and understanding for those of others. It is taking the time to eat healthy, exercise, meditate, and heal physically, mentally & emotionally, to be completely authentic. It is knowing when you need to rest, versus pushing into exhaustion for others. It is sharing your gifts with others to help them and yourself. It is knowing you create your own happiness, peace & Love.

Self-Love is being a kind, loving and caring human being to you, and all around you, including all of Nature. It is recognizing while you are an individual, unique soul, you are also part of the One, and what you do to another, is done to you. It is choosing positive actions, thoughts and words to help you and everyone around you. As thoughts, words and actions are all energy. We are all energy, sharing, giving and exchanging energy all the time. Choosing positive, love-filled energy to share and give is our purpose. Moving into a more love-centered world is our purpose. Our purpose includes unique gifts and talents all our own, yet it is still to share and give them with Love.

Self-Love is all about going back to Love, and living Love more and more. It is pausing to ask yourself what is the motivation behind my words, thoughts and actions? Ego or Love driven? If ego, it is time to discover why and heal from it, allowing the heart, or Love to lead you, versus the ego. It is being aware and open enough to listen more than speak, both to others and your higher self, your Divine Center, your soul. Self-Love is understanding and listening more to your truth, than that of others, although being wise enough to listen to others’ beliefs to see if it resonates with you in some way. It is seeking knowledge for growth, wisdom and transformation to “Awaken a more brilliant version of you™” to give and share of your true self, while having the discernment to know who else lives with Self-Love. As we connect more with others who are living in Love with Self-Love, we increase this energy to share with others who need it the most. We are creating a wave of wondrous Love, transforming ourselves, and showing others how to transform themselves.

I’d be honored to help you discover, deepen and shine your Self-Love through healing, transformation and awakening your authenticity to live in Love.

Namaste! ❤ ~ Heather

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Awaken

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Awaken with openness and awareness.

Awakening involves being open to all experiences, beliefs, ideas and opinions with awareness of the self and the world. Awakening is taking the time to discover the underlying truths not being spoken or broadcast and how they affect you and the world at large. It is paying attention to the subtle clues around you, bringing awareness to what is truly happening versus what you are being told is happening by “experts”. Awakening is also bringing this new information into your Being which creates a different understanding of life. This helps in strengthening your intuitive abilities, which will create more openness of the heart and soul, further strengthening this intuition. And, the more awakened you become, strengthening your intuitive abilities, the more wisdom you gain, and the more enlightened you become. For instance, many are awakening to the possibilities of natural, organic methods of health & wellness versus the current healthcare system. I, for one, have this year discovered the power of essential oils, and would love to share what I’ve learned with you!

Many other ways exists to help us return to a state of balance and wellness, such as yoga, chiropractic, intuitive life guidance and Energy Healing, like Reiki Energy, and more that can help you heal in mind, body & soul. I have seen powerful changes in people who are working on healing themselves through many of these methods and some of those who are my Reiki clients.This includes myself, as I have used and still use yoga, Reiki, meditation, self-help books, Akashic Record readings, life guidance, chiropractic, dietary methods and more. All of this helped immensely over the past 10-13 years, but especially over this past year, since as long as we are alive, we are learning, healing, growing and transforming. The more healing we do, we reveal other layers of healing. For instance, I thought I was healed from the issues within a relationship nearly 13 years ago. I simply buried them. This year, I was able to uncover them and understand the type of behaviors which led me to repeating similar relationships and patterns to help heal and transform myself.

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People are also awakening to how food truly affects our health, and which foods to avoid. Communities are coming together to promote Oneness, sharing their gifts and talents while having a community organic farm. More and more people are recognizing a “rich” lifestyle which has been promoted, marketed and glorified is not “rich” at all. This lifestyle and the marketing promotes happiness through owning another item which we do not necessarily need. We are awakening to the belief happiness comes from within our own souls, not from objects. We are the source of our own happiness.

Awareness is spreading of how we are One with Nature, and how Mother Earth’s health is now affecting Humanity. This information stems from those who are providing information in non-mainstream media channels. These are the Light Bearers, Light Warriors and Light Bringers. We are all of the Light, and we are being reminded of this and how we are all a part of this world and anything and everything we do affects everything, everyone and our ultimate Human home, Mother Nature. It brings us together, erasing race, color, creed and borders. It helps rid us of judgements, comparisons and criticisms. It brings in compassion, understanding, harmony and pure love. This pure love is the enlightenment of the body and the spirit. Awareness of what is not working in today’s world and within ourselves and working on transforming ourselves to change the world.

Becoming more spiritual in our outlooks is enlightenment. More and more people are looking at “spirituality” and alternate means of finding it within themselves. It is knowing, trusting and believing that working with the flow of Divine timing and order will allow the best outcomes to manifest, creating our heaven on earth. It is time for more to become awakened and enlightened for our present moments. We are Human Beings of the Light in the Now, and we need to be more aware of how our Now affects many other Nows yet to come through awakening, openness and awareness leading us into more enlightenment.

To begin to become more awakened, it is time to question all your beliefs and why you have them. It is time to dive deep within yourself and recognize what is holding you back to heal past hurts, worries and barriers. It is time to recognize you are part of the change, simply by working on healing and transforming yourself. It is time to stop doing things and start being your authentic self to help you manifest your dream life through living your passions. It is time to understand there is no lack, only infinite abundance and prosperity for all.  Some see the world as a positive place and others see it as a negative place…it is the same world. It is time to change your perceptions of life, remembering we all live in the same world, together, each unique soul expressions of the same Brilliant Divine Spirit.

It is time to awaken your most brilliant self.

Namaste!

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Make Time for Love

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Make time for what and who you love.

How busy are you? Are you making excuses? Are those excuses about “not enough time?” Do you know what you would prefer to be doing given all the time in the world?

We have as much time as we need for what we love to do and who we love. Many of us have to work, yet many of us are still working too much. We think we need more “stuff” to be happy, so we spend more time making money to get more “stuff”. Is this “stuff” making you happier? Or is it filling a hole? What hole is it filling? Are you lonely?  Feeling unloved or unworthy? Are you craving attention to boost your self-confidence?  Perhaps you are fearful of understanding yourself and working all the time keeps you from thinking about your own issues? Whatever the case may be, it’s important to know we need a healthy relationship with our selves by making time for ourselves.  We also need to know it’s healthy to interact and enjoy time with those we love.

If we are not making time for what we love to do and who we love in our lives, it’s time to ask why. It is easy to get caught up in the “to-do” list. But what is on your “to-do” list? Is it ego fulfilling or soul fulfilling?  Ego-fulfilling items can be doing what society thinks we should be doing.  Working harder to prove we are hard-workers. Between our home, families and work, we can always find something to do. Then we tend to talk about how busy we are doing all these things.  Well, what about doing something soul fulfilling?  Something which makes you truly happy?  Maybe it’s exercising for the joy you find it (versus it being a chore on your to-do list), like walking through the park or along a beach, doing yoga or playing in a pool. Perhaps it’s playing a round of golf with friends. Maybe it’s going to a movie, playing a game with your kids, any arts & crafts, sitting quietly, meditating or going for a leisurely drive and letting the energy take you somewhere new to discover.  Any of these can be soul-fulfilling, and while doing them you may uncover or discover a passion you forgot about.  This passion could lead you to your life purpose, which you may be able to turn into your career.  And, having a career doing what we love is making time for what we love to do.

We all know in this 3D world we have our bills, need food and shelter, however, what choices are you making that are not in line with balance and enjoying your life? What is unhealthy for you mind, body or soul?  How can you change it?  If you do not like your job, are you searching for a new one or perhaps building your own business more in line with your passions?

Another question to ask yourself is “are you loving your to-do list?” How many times have you caught yourself doing something on your list versus Being in the moment? If you are so ingrained on getting things done, you aren’t being in the now and most likely aren’t enjoying yourself. You may not like cleaning, and find yourself complaining to yourself while you do it.   While doing one thing, you may be thinking about the next thing you need to do, which causes us stress. Make that “to-do” list and think of something else you can do which is creating balance because it helps you in some way. Try playing music you enjoy, which is known to elevate our energy. Or incorporate something else like yoga poses.  I clean the floors while in Goddess Pose, which makes my body and soul feel better because I love yoga.  I incorporate others poses here and there as well as I move from one thing to the next. I also practice deep breathing exercises and meditation while doing home chores. Combining our to-do list with what we love can really help us find time for what we love.

Can remember how often you may use the phrase “I don’t have the time” or “I’m too tired.” Next time ask yourself “Why am I not making time for myself or my loved ones?” and “Why am I so tired?” Ask yourself “Why is it important to me to be doing things from my to-do list versus (insert a fun activity)?”  Determine if you are truly tired and need to rest, or if you need a boost of energy by doing something you love. When we dig deep, we can find issues we may not want to face, but by facing them, we can heal them and let them go. “Busy work” is often a band-aid for something we do not want to face within ourselves. It keeps the focus from us, tiring us out, so we do not have to think about our internal “problems.”  However, the more we can dive within to deal with and heal from our issues, we reveal another layer of our authenticity. When we live our truth, or our authenticity, we attract more opportunities we would love to do, as well as, more people we would love to spend time with, as they are seeing us for our true selves.  Therefore, we are creating and manifesting time to do what we love to do, while also creating time to spend with those we love.

Perhaps it’s time to re-evaluate the to-do list and create a different list. Perhaps the list can be named the “Love List”. List all the things you love to do and all the people in your life with whom you wish to spend time. Start carving out time in your days to accomplish your “love list”. Note, it’s important that we are not checking off items like a “to-do” list, but creating time and a life in which we can enjoy all the things and people we love more often, through healing, awakening our authenticity and living the life we love.

What’s on your “love list”? I’d love to hear about it!

Namaste! 

Heather 

Reiki Master, Akashic Record & Tarot/Oracle Card Reader, Intuitive Guide, Yoga Instructor, Ordained Minister, Co-Creator of Positive Change in The Wellness Universe, Young Living Essential Oils Distributor

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Relationship Help with Reiki

Slide1Heal past relationships to transform and awaken.

In our lives, we have many types of relationships.  We are always exchanging energies with each other in these relationships.  These energies create connections, or karmic bands, between us.  These bands are linked between our souls.  We carry them from our past relationships in this lifetime,  as well as, our past lives, into our now. Relationships with family, friends, co-workers and others.  The relationships may be helpful or they may be troubling and difficult. We are meant to learn from them, yet at times we are so caught up in the problems, and perceived faults of the other person, the relationship or ourselves, it is challenging for us to face them again, for fear of feeling the hurts and pains all over again. This can be particularly difficult with those we have believed have failed us in some way, or we have failed them, perhaps creating what we think may be irreversible issues within us.

Relationships being in the womb, with our biological mother, which creates a karmic band.  We also have one with our biological father, as his energy is within us as well. Over time, these bands can strengthen, change and/or create either good loving energy within us; issues, beliefs, opinions about ourselves; or very challenging hurts and pains. If these issues are not dealt with, they will  continue to follow us.  They may even show up as physical issues such as injuries, illness or dis-ease. Any promises, contracts and oaths with others also create karmic bands.  Some of these from the past and past lives could have been forced upon us, yet they are still there and can be interfering in some fashion with our current life. Karmic band energy work can help you heal and release any of these types of connections.

When the relationships are difficult, challenging and painful in some way, we may shy away from working on the issue we need to learn from it so we can heal within us.  We may ignore it. We may think we are strong, and carry them, thinking we deserve it somehow and are not worthy of healthy relationships or something else.  This is all extra baggage we truly do not need to cart around anymore. Carrying these burdens is not what our souls came here to do. They came here to learn, heal and transform from all past issues in this lifetime and prior ones. We are meant to experience unconditional Love, Joy, Harmony and more. Our souls have chosen the family we were born into, who we interact with and even when and where we are born.  Why?  Because that’s where the lessons reside for us.

By using Reiki and Karmic Band Energy work, we can face any fears, issues, problems, pains and hurts in a safe space.  We can deal with it once and for all. We may still remember the lesson or pain, yet, we will no longer need to feel it, hide from it or fear it.  It will no longer interfere in our lives, removing barriers to allow more abundance to flow in these areas which have been previously affected. Our emotions will be much better balanced if we think about the situation.  Reiki masters can intend, or “send” energy into these karmic bands for a variety of reasons, including helping you heal the issue.  The energy being sent can soften or lesson the emotions so they may not be as dramatic or traumatic for you to recall. At times, bands are removed while the energy keeps you from feeling it at all, or to help block the reason completely, if it may just be too much for you to handle. The energy always knows what is best, and the Reiki Master reads the energy.  The energy is from the very wise and all-knowing Divine. If the band has been balanced, when the person is ready, the karmic band can even be completely removed. Again, we will still have the memory of it, but it will no longer affect us in our current life or in our future  by causing emotional dis-stress, pain and other problems as we continue on our life journeys. It actually releases us to experience beautiful and positive new situations, people and places without the issue or fear.

One client I had was experiencing self-confidence issues which stemmed from childhood. This issue stemmed from the karmic band between her and her mother. She felt she needed to be thin and wear make-up to be pretty.  This idea was ingrained in her head from her mother.  Her mother was constantly talking about her looks and society doesn’t make this concept any easier. Her mother would not say she didn’t look good when she didn’t have make-up on, or her hair done or if she gained some weight. But, the way the mother always talked about having to be thin, and that she looked prettier with make-up and with certain clothes and at a certain weight caused an issue in a karmic band between them.  The client thought she needed to get her mother’s approval, as well as, society’s and if she didn’t take care of her outer self, no one would love her.  It created self-confidence, respect and love problems with this person. This person would work out all the time, didn’t eat enough, so was lacking in proper nutrition, and felt like she wasn’t worthy of good, loving relationships. She bounced around from one relationship to another, looking for approval and love. Using Reiki energy, talking it out, and working on the karmic band released this negative emotional attachment.  We did a few sessions simply for this as it was deeply rooted.  This issue was a band she carried not only from this lifetime, but had been one she still had from previous ones because of her past life ties to her mothers and other people.  She chose this lifetime to heal it with this mother. She is now much happier with herself, with self-love and self-acceptance, creating more loving and beautiful relationships.

Remember, many of us are afraid of facing these issues within ourselves. However, I am here to attest, after deep, intensive work this year, the fears are worse that we can imagine. And, the healing we can obtain to transform ourselves from these karmic band issues, lessons and pains are well worth it. I feel lighter and even happier than I have been (and most people who know me personally think I’m one of the happiest people they have ever met before I did even more deep and profound inner work this year!).  I am even more open, aware, and self-confident. I love myself even more. We are not born perfect, because we are human, and in each lifetime as human, we pick up karma.  Thus, karmic band work. If you are ready, it is truly transformative, and I’d be honored to assist you. It can be done in person, via phone or Skype.  Being able to do it live allows the intuitive life coaching aspect, as well, where you can talk it out to help yourself heal further to transform and “Awaken a more brilliant version of you™”.

If you would like to book a consultation or appointment, please email me at: HeatherCLang@yahoo.com

Namaste! Espavo!  ~ Heather

Reiki Master, Akashic Record & Tarot/Oracle Card Reader, Intuitive Guide, Yoga Instructor, Ordained Minister, Co-Creator of Positive Change in The Wellness Universe, Young Living Essential Oils Distributor

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