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Relationship Help with Reiki

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In our lives, we have many types of relationships.  We are always exchanging energies with each other in these relationships.  These energies create connections, or karmic bands, between us.  These bands are linked between our souls.  We carry them from our past relationships in this lifetime,  as well as, our past lives, into our now. Relationships with family, friends, co-workers and others.  The relationships may be helpful or they may be troubling and difficult. We are meant to learn from them, yet at times we are so caught up in the problems, and perceived faults of the other person, the relationship or ourselves, it is challenging for us to face them again, for fear of feeling the hurts and pains all over again. This can be particularly difficult with those we have believed have failed us in some way, or we have failed them, perhaps creating what we think may be irreversible issues within us.

Relationships being in the womb, with our biological mother, which creates a karmic band.  We also have one with our biological father, as his energy is within us as well. Over time, these bands can strengthen, change and/or create either good loving energy within us; issues, beliefs, opinions about ourselves; or very challenging hurts and pains. If these issues are not dealt with, they will  continue to follow us.  They may even show up as physical issues such as injuries, illness or dis-ease. Any promises, contracts and oaths with others also create karmic bands.  Some of these from the past and past lives could have been forced upon us, yet they are still there and can be interfering in some fashion with our current life. Karmic band energy work can help you heal and release any of these types of connections.

When the relationships are difficult, challenging and painful in some way, we may shy away from working on the issue we need to learn from it so we can heal within us.  We may ignore it. We may think we are strong, and carry them, thinking we deserve it somehow and are not worthy of healthy relationships or something else.  This is all extra baggage we truly do not need to cart around anymore. Carrying these burdens is not what our souls came here to do. They came here to learn, heal and transform from all past issues in this lifetime and prior ones. We are meant to experience unconditional Love, Joy, Harmony and more. Our souls have chosen the family we were born into, who we interact with and even when and where we are born.  Why?  Because that’s where the lessons reside for us.

By using Reiki and Karmic Band Energy work, we can face any fears, issues, problems, pains and hurts in a safe space.  We can deal with it once and for all. We may still remember the lesson or pain, yet, we will no longer need to feel it, hide from it or fear it.  It will no longer interfere in our lives, removing barriers to allow more abundance to flow in these areas which have been previously affected. Our emotions will be much better balanced if we think about the situation.  Reiki masters can intend, or “send” energy into these karmic bands for a variety of reasons, including helping you heal the issue.  The energy being sent can soften or lesson the emotions so they may not be as dramatic or traumatic for you to recall. At times, bands are removed while the energy keeps you from feeling it at all, or to help block the reason completely, if it may just be too much for you to handle. The energy always knows what is best, and the Reiki Master reads the energy.  The energy is from the very wise and all-knowing Divine. If the band has been balanced, when the person is ready, the karmic band can even be completely removed. Again, we will still have the memory of it, but it will no longer affect us in our current life or in our future  by causing emotional dis-stress, pain and other problems as we continue on our life journeys. It actually releases us to experience beautiful and positive new situations, people and places without the issue or fear.

One client I had was experiencing self-confidence issues which stemmed from childhood. This issue stemmed from the karmic band between her and her mother. She felt she needed to be thin and wear make-up to be pretty.  This idea was ingrained in her head from her mother.  Her mother was constantly talking about her looks and society doesn’t make this concept any easier. Her mother would not say she didn’t look good when she didn’t have make-up on, or her hair done or if she gained some weight. But, the way the mother always talked about having to be thin, and that she looked prettier with make-up and with certain clothes and at a certain weight caused an issue in a karmic band between them.  The client thought she needed to get her mother’s approval, as well as, society’s and if she didn’t take care of her outer self, no one would love her.  It created self-confidence, respect and love problems with this person. This person would work out all the time, didn’t eat enough, so was lacking in proper nutrition, and felt like she wasn’t worthy of good, loving relationships. She bounced around from one relationship to another, looking for approval and love. Using Reiki energy, talking it out, and working on the karmic band released this negative emotional attachment.  We did a few sessions simply for this as it was deeply rooted.  This issue was a band she carried not only from this lifetime, but had been one she still had from previous ones because of her past life ties to her mothers and other people.  She chose this lifetime to heal it with this mother. She is now much happier with herself, with self-love and self-acceptance, creating more loving and beautiful relationships.

Remember, many of us are afraid of facing these issues within ourselves. However, I am here to attest, after deep, intensive work this year, the fears are worse that we can imagine. And, the healing we can obtain to transform ourselves from these karmic band issues, lessons and pains are well worth it. I feel lighter and even happier than I have been (and most people who know me personally think I’m one of the happiest people they have ever met before I did even more deep and profound inner work this year!).  I am even more open, aware, and self-confident. I love myself even more. We are not born perfect, because we are human, and in each lifetime as human, we pick up karma.  Thus, karmic band work. If you are ready, it is truly transformative, and I’d be honored to assist you. It can be done in person, via phone or Skype.  Being able to do it live allows the intuitive life coaching aspect, as well, where you can talk it out to help yourself heal further to transform and “Awaken a more brilliant version of you™”.

If you would like to book a consultation or appointment, please email me at: HeatherCLang@yahoo.com

Namaste! Espavo!  ~ Heather

Reiki Master, Akashic Record & Tarot/Oracle Card Reader, Intuitive Guide, Yoga Instructor, Ordained Minister, Co-Creator of Positive Change in The Wellness Universe, Young Living Essential Oils Distributor

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True Self Love

I’m honored to be featured today on The Wellness Universe with my blog!

“We need to deeply understand and accept ourselves to obtain true Self Love and to experience True Love with others.

How do we do this? One way is to release old pains and resentments from any type of past relationships, while focusing on why you hold the pain. Realize at the time of the relationship, the other person may not have been in a space of being able to express real love, whether a parent, significant other, friend or child. Or perhaps you weren’t in the proper space at that time. Understand both you and the other person may not have been connected deeply with your souls and maybe have not fully experienced true self-love yet. The important lesson is what you have learned from the relationship about yourself and then what actions you take to heal yourself…..”

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Support Systems

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We all need our support systems.

We require physical, mental and emotional support. We require spiritual support. Support for our opinions, beliefs and feelings. Each individual requires support in all the stages of life. As infants we need our head supported, to be fed, changed and clothed. As we grow, we need support as we learn to crawl and then walk. We need classes and training to support our education. When participating in sports or team events our team mates, coaches and audience support us. During daily life, assisting each other at work, or with home chores is support of one another.

Relationships with others and the proper way to interact with different personalities is another way we can support each other. Sharing our own experiences and stories helps in this fashion. Learning acceptance and discernment, awareness and openness are all things we can do to help our selves and others, as we can be supportive without criticism or judgment.

We also need others to help us learn how to cultivate self-worth, self-confidence, self-love and more. We need to help others in all of these areas, while others are also helping us. Sometimes these lessons are easy and at times they are extremely challenging, as we learn more and more about our selves and the way we may be acting or reacting to another person or situation. In these instances working with a Reiki Master, Life Coach or Counselor can be very helpful, and these professionals are providing you the support you need.

We need to truly understand the type of support which may be required for us and of us. At any given time, we may need a teacher, a coach, a friend or a mentor. Maybe we need family to help us understand love of one another regardless of mistakes and problems. Maybe we need friends to offer advice, but perhaps we simply need them to be a sounding board, to listen to us while we talk it out and figure it out by our selves. Perhaps we need an intuitive guide, showing empathy and helping us to determine how to heal, release and grow.

It is important to discern what type of support we need, and what others need. Sometimes the support type is very clear, and sometimes we need to ask how we can help someone. We need to comprehend our way of needing support may not necessarily be someone else’s way, therefore, a simple question allows us to supply what is needed. Understanding of each other and our own and others’ needs provides us a better way to be kind and compassionate with unconditional Love. It allows us to step back and simply be the support system without being upset someone may not be following our guidance because it may not resonate with them at that time. It may later, and it may not, but we need to detach from the circumstance, and remember, we are all walking very different paths on our unique journeys. In those instances where the type of support is not readily apparent, and sometimes even if it is, a simple “how can I support you?” may be the key to offering and being the type of support truly needed at that time.

I’ve had the pleasure of knowing both people in my life who have not known how to support me, and those who do know or simply asked “What can I do for you?” Some who have listened, some who have offered advice, yet through it all continued to show their support and love. I’ve had others who have become frustrated with me and seemingly abandoned me. I have had those who judge my decisions and those who accept them. I have had those who have jeered me and those who have cheered me.  In the end, I’ve learned something from each person, instance and treatment.  I’ve been able to still work through my issues, with the support of those around me who stuck with me.  And, being that type of person is the kind of support we all would like and need, regardless if we are able to help the other person “fix” the issue, or not, whether or not we offer or give advice which is taken or not at the time. We need to realize offering support that the other person needs is not about us, it is about them and what they need.  We are simply meant to be here to support others in any way they need with Love. And, in return, we will find others learn from us and become the support we need, whether they leave our lives, stay or return in some fashion. Support is all about learning and growth for everyone involved.

I’d be honored to support you in any way you may require.  Contact me at heatherclang@yahoo.com for a consultation or to book an appointment.

If you follow my blog you’ll be included in the next 1st of the month Group Distant Reiki Session for free! All you need to do is intend to be included, and when ready, receive the energy after the 1st of the month.

Namaste!

Heather 

Reiki Master, Akashic Record & Tarot/Oracle Card Reader, Intuitive Guide, Yoga Instructor, Ordained Minister, Co-Creator of Positive Change in The Wellness Universe, Young Living Essential Oils Distributor

“Awaken a more brilliant version of you™”

©2016

 

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Winds of Change

The winds of life can change your course.

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As we move through life, a wave of energy can come in and change our course. We may be too inwardly focused, not paying attention to those around us, not recognizing what’s changing or any myriad of possibilities. We can be moving along towards what we thought was best or what we thought was going to happen, and any number of possibilities. While we are busy, we can get smacked with a life changing event to gain our attention, since our focus was elsewhere. When this happens, it is time to release, heal and recognize you have just been given a fresh start, new beginning or opening just for you. Divine timing can be working with the Divine, and at times, it can also be a total blindside, which wasn’t expected. These seemingly “out of the blue” happenings are the energy working in your favor. It is your Divine counsel, soul and the Universe helping to redirect you in the direction you have been traveling by working on yourself, transforming and healing past issues. Or it could be because you aren’t doing any work on yourself.  It is the Divine supporting and guiding you, even if it doesn’t feel that way at the time. It is actually helping you, by clearing out certain aspects of your life, because something even better needs to come into your life. This can be relationships, jobs, homes and more. Just know that when a wave of energy comes in to change your course, do not use resistance, simply relax and be in the flow, trusting it’s in your highest good. At these times, we need to go within and discover & accept what is happening to and within us, while working on ourselves.

When we go against the flow or direction our souls are directing us, we experience tension & resistance bringing on anxiety, worry, stress and more. We are fighting the natural course of energies in our lives. We are at a complete standstill, because the more we push to keep our lives the same, the more the energy pushes us the other way.  When we feel this resistance, the best thing we can do is stop and become more aware of why we are having these feelings.  We can investigate them, without judging ourselves, to understand them.  We can ask ourselves a multitude of questions to help us with the answers for our best interests.  We can use other tools such as intuitive guidance or life coaches, Tarot/Oracle cards, astrology, Reiki or other energy exchanges, Akashic Record readings and more.  We can work through what has been keeping us stuck in our lives to release it and heal from it, thus awakening a new aspect and transforming our whole Being, healing wounds and completing ourselves.  These are what challenges and the winds of change are assisting us to do.  We are meant to flow with our soul’s mission, purpose and Divine gifts.  We have already intended to live this life, from balancing or releasing Karma, soul contracts, past life vows & oaths and more.  When we take the necessary steps to do all of these things, beautiful blessings are bestowed upon us. Miracles happen. Our dreams, wishes and desires start to manifest. We recognize the blockages in life are ourselves and what we continue to carry as baggage from the past or our past lives, which is causing disruption in our current lives. All these indicators and messages is your internal Divine guidance system leading you to the bounty awaiting you.  And, this bounty, this abundance, will be even greater than you can imagine. And be grateful for these challenges, large or small, because the Divine wants you to live your best life, wants you to thrive and wants you to find your bliss… and Divine knows best.

If you would like assistance and are ready to do the work in your life’s challenges, I’d be honored to help you, help yourself.

Namaste!

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I’m an honored member of The Wellness Universe! We are working towards bringing more Love, Light, Wellness & Positive Change to ALL. If you would like to co-create with us, visit the site for more information ~ http://www.thewellnessuniverse.com

©2016

 

 

 

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We are ALL Peace, Love & Joy.

Hello Namaste Rays News-Worthy Readers! Peace-Love-and-Joy-By-Heather-Corinne-Lang

I’m incredibly honored to have another blog featured on http://www.thewellnessuniverse.com today.  In the spirit of the holidays, The Wellness Universe is featuring a holiday themed blog post each day this week.  I’d be grateful and honored if you take the time to read this blog and drop off your thoughts! See the link below.  Also, please take some time to read the other wonderful blogs included this week.  To get weekly highlights from The Wellness Universe, sign up for their newsletter on this page ~ http://thewellnessuniverse.com/contact-us/

Namaste with and in Peace, Love & Joy

Heather

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Reiki is…

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Reiki is an energy channeling and exchange technique. This healing energy can be channeled from many different avenues, including but not limited to the earth, spirit and universe. Everything and everyone has energy and exchanges energy in some fashion all the time.

The Reiki Master calls upon different entities or energies and pulls that energy into her/himself, and then directs it through intent into another person’s life fore energy. Our life force energy is what helps us live. Some may call it the soul. But, it’s what makes your heart beat, your mind think, your organs work and your muscles move. When our energies are not strong, we can become ill or experience dis-ease, pains or injuries. It’s similar to when you don’t get enough sleep, which can compromise your immune system, and you are then more susceptible to being sick.

We, along with everyone and everything around us is energy in some form. For instance, many have learned the process of photosynthesis, which is basically plants using the sun’s energy to create food. When you are in nature and feel peace, you are bringing the energy of the plants, trees and animals into you simply by being there. With Reiki, Masters pull the energy around them and channel it into others to help strengthen their life force energy. This boost to your energy can help you heal, maintain health, balance, peace and more.  Think of it as medicine for your entire Being.  If you are truly willing to heal and let go of anything that may be causing dis-ease or illness in you, then Reiki can help!

The myriad ways Reiki Healing Energy can help you is endless. It helps heal physical, mental, spiritual or emotional ailments; calm you from stress, worry and anxities; create more balance; bring you more openness; release and heal from past trauma or drama from your current life past, past lives, generational connections and/or ancestral lineages; it can help in understanding ourselves and relationships; open, strengthen and increase intuition, plus much, much more. This energy can also be channeled to plants, spaces, places, situations, animals, water and food.  Reiki can be used to help anything you can conceive of!

The energy is very gentle and soothing.  It may feel like warmth to you, or waves within your body as if you are floating in waves in the ocean, or even as a tingling sensation. Some even experience it as seeing colors or images in the mind’s eye, hearing sounds, or smelling scents.  Or, during the session you may not experience anything, yet, after a session you may feel lighter, freer, happier, more balanced as if you just had a relaxing and/or rejuvenating experience, similar to a physical massage. Healing energy or Reiki works well when someone is truly open and accepting and most importantly, ready and determined to heal themselves in body, mind or soul.

Another way to help understand energy exchange, is how you have felt another’s energy before, however, you may not have recognized it.  Examples include when you are in a room alone, and you suddenly think someone is behind you, only to turn around and discover someone else has entered the room. Another example is when you “know” someone is about to call before they call, and moments later, you receive a call from that exact person.  Basically you are picking up on the thoughts of another person before the action takes place. Those thoughts are energy. Reiki can even help you strengthen this awareness, which is your intuition.

I use another healing method in conjunction with Reiki. It’s a technique to raise another’s vibration. Everything and everyone vibrates at a certain level. By channeling the vibrations to raise someone else’s vibration or frequency, it helps to heal them as well. Sickness, dis-ease, illness and stress can cause a person’s vibration to lower. By using healing energy to raise another’s frequency, it also helps the person’s energy levels to strengthen and help heal them. Using colors to help balance another person is also a method I use. Our bodies have energy centers, most often called chakras. All chakras have a basic color associated with them. If someone is unbalanced, the color of the chakra could be different or not as strong. So, by channeling a certain color – which also has it’s own frequency, or vibration – it can help heal someone by balancing and strengthening these energy centers. Reiki masters can use many different tools, including essential oils & elixirs, herbs, crystals, sounds, drums and symbols.

You do not need to be present in a physical way with a Reiki Master. A Reiki Master can send you energy across space and time. (Ha…sounds like a sci-fi movie!) This energy can be sent directly to you at once, or it can be programmed, like a DVR, to be sent at a certain date, time & place, or queued up. Queuing it up means sending the energy but intending the energy to be held in spirit or space (I ask the spiritual entities to “hold” it) until the person is ready to accept it. The scheduling or queing techniques work very well with someone who is busy and is not able to find a mutually available time with the Reiki Master. Scheduling also works well for surgeries, appointments with doctors or even for court cases. I’ve done all of the above and more with scheduling. I’ve queued energy very often for my clients who do not live near me or don’t have a set schedule, but know at some point with a day or two, they will have time to lie down and accept the energy. The person who is receiving the queued up energy when ready for it will simply say “I am now ready to accept the energy Heather (or whomever has sent it) has sent to me.” This method works, because in the spirit world, time and space does not exist and it has no meaning. However, spirit understands for us to live as humans, we need a measurement, which is time and space. Energy and spirit can be anywhere and everywhere at the same time. Therefore, I can also send to a group of people and the energy will go to each individual in the manner in which each person needs it. It’s the power of the healing energy.

When working with someone, I can intend for the energy to help with a particular matter, but the energy, when mixing with their life force energy, will also go where that individual needs it the most. For instance, let’s say you have injured your right foot. The energy will help heal your foot, but it may also work with the reason you hurt your foot. This reason may or may not be revealed to the Reiki Master or the individual at that time, but it will help bring it up. It can happen later to the person as an “Aha!” moment. Perhaps the person wasn’t supposed to make a certain decision to move forward in a certain way. That’s why they may have hurt their foot. The message is to make another decision, which will bring about a better situation. And, this is what I call Intuitive Life Guidance. While I send someone healing energy, I will get messages to give them from Angels, Guides and different types of light entities, such as Ascended Masters, and other higher vibrational light beings. One client I have worked with asked for energy because she fell down the stairs and broke several ribs. The energy definitely wanted to go to her ribs, but it also told me through the feel of the energy that it was going into her temple. I told her she may have a fracture there. The doctors didn’t diagnose any issues with her head at first, but when she went back to the hospital for an another issue, the doctors found the fracture. This is the benefit and power of healing energy. Reiki healing energy is truly limitless in the ways it can help us heal ourselves!

If you are ready to begin healing yourself and/or being a spiritual journey to discover or re-discover yourself, please contact me. Also, let me know if you have any questions about any of the information I have shared here.

Namaste! Espavo!

Heather

Reiki Master & Teacher, Yoga Instructor, Intuitive Life Guide, Tarot & Oracle Card and Akashic Record Reader, Ordained Minister

©2015

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Unity through similarities and differences

Unity is about embracing, understanding and accepting both similarities and differences.

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To be in union with others doesn’t mean we have to be exactly like any other, mimic anyone or conform to anyone. It doesn’t entail uniformity. Unity is bringing all the similarities and differences together as One Union of Souls. It is combining the forces of each person to live a life of balance with each other. It is offering your gifts and accepting the gifts of others without competition. It is recognizing the beauty of another, and accepting the beauty of yourself.  Unity is understanding we all have different personalities and still seeing the Light within each one of us.

Being in union is understanding our beliefs, thoughts & opinions may differ from others, and they may not.  Differences are simply different, they are not better or worse than someone else’s.  Our paths in this life are meant to be different, therefore, where some believe in one type of religion, others do not believe in any.  Where some are of one political viewpoint, others have another. Unity is accepting all of this, and embracing it to live in balance, peace & harmony.  Balance is the key and one of the lesson’s many of us are learning whether it is balancing our individual lives, balancing our lives with our family & friends, or finding balance in our world as a whole.

Unity is the balance of bringing together both the similarities and differences. The differences of each person are intended to help us cultivate compassion and love for each other. The similarities are intended to bring us together to live in union with the uniqueness of each person. We were never meant to do everything all by ourselves, as we couldn’t possibly do it all.  We are meant to share, give and be with others. While one person sings, another dances. While one person writes, another reads. While one person plans, another executes. While one swims, another runs. While one faces east, another faces west. It is those differences which balance out the unity of the entire group, the whole entity or the community with the similarities. It is each of us embracing, understanding and accepting our own gifts and talents, as well as those of others. Unity is about sharing with each other for the betterment of the whole. It brings the whole together as One. It is recognizing the One is many, yet as many we work as One.

Have a De-LIGHT-Filled Day!
Namaste!
Espavo!
Heather
Yoga Instructor, Reiki Master, Intuitive Life Guide, Ordained Minister, Tarot Card & Akashic Record Reader

©2015

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Your Shining Shadow

Slide1Messages of Light & Love have been abundant these past several years.  With messages of Love yourself, Heal yourself, Shine from within and Balance your male and female energies.  Many of us are hearing these messages, understanding, awakening and ascending.  We are rising our  vibrations, increasing our frequencies and thus have helped others around us and our Mother Earth, Our Gaia, heal and rise up.   We are understanding even more the concept of unity versus separateness. We are becoming One with All in our unique divine Selves. Mother Earth has passed through many portals, and as She has moved into a new dimension, we have been along for the ride.  It’s been bumpy at times, yet necessary in our grand transformation. Some of us understand and work to catch up to Gaia, as we believe in the Peace which Pure Light Love brings as we “remember” it, because we feel it in our inner being.  We are now Shining Brighter, Radiating more Love & Light, and Glowing with Joy.

Now, with this new time in the human evolution, the healing still continues. We are still working towards what some call “Heaven On Earth”, or “Nirvana”.  We are working into Bliss in it’s purest, most glorious state.  The healing messages are now to understand, accept and live with the darkness which also exists within each of our human bodies.  This is our ego.  Ego is about selfishness.  It’s the “We” versus “They” mindset. My family, my country, my home, my land instead of our Our One World, Our One Land, Our One People, Our One Earth.  It is similar to the messages of before, yet before we needed to change the darkness we felt because it was “bad”.  Now it is even more about the Zen, where both exist simultaneously, and we observe and accept it.  I’ve written about many of these topics before, some posted here, some via my former newsletter I delivered via email before this site.  I am repeatedly seeing this message about observing and accepting the darkness.  It’s not about leading with darkness, but balancing it out with your Light. Healing it with the Light, but understanding it’s not going to go away.  For Light cannot exist without the Dark, but One small dot of Light within the darkness is seen.  One small spot of darkness amongst the light is much more difficult to see.  But like a drop of the ocean, it is both a drop and the ocean. It’s about knowing the darkness is there, but living with more Light.  Yes, we will lose our temper, but send Love to that situation, the people involved including yourself and bring the balance of Light back to your heart and shine.  We most often find ourselves defensive because we do not want to accept something within ourselves we do not like.  We ignore the darkness and feel “bad” when it come out. If we continue to ignore it, how will we send Love & Light to it to balance it, to heal it?  It will continue to pop up in our lives in most unexpected ways, causing darkness and imbalance which may lead to dis-ease manifesting either mentally, emotionally or physically.

An example is from my life.  I am a Capricorn with an Aquarius cusp.  I was recently told something that I later read in a general description of a Capricorn-Aquarius Cusp baby. This person said my strength is a very good quality, but at times it comes across as bullishness, as being very critical.   What!?!?!?  Ouch!!  Talk about some darkness coming out.  I fought that opinion, but then realized, wait.  This is a learning experience and I listened. It hurt, but I really listened.  It made sense to me. I was being defensive. I wasn’t allowing the Light forth in some situations as I stood strong in my convictions.  I live with an open mind, and yet when I was being defensive in this manner, I couldn’t send Love & Light to myself to heal what was so upsetting me and causing havoc in other areas of my life.  I love listening to differences of opinions, cultures, beliefs and more.  Yet, when it comes to someone telling me the way I express myself is not necessarily being taken the right way, my ego fired  up!  This was most recently and I am working to send the Light & Love to that dark space which I thought was healed, but I realize keeps coming up. This theme is repeating in different ways, yet I am now seeing the pattern of this particular situation. And, as we know, we will keep getting the lesson until we are truly healed. It’s messy and it’s difficult to look at ourselves in manners such as this one, yet it’s important.  It’s a challenge to figure out, heal and balance those dark spots we all have.  But, to fully awaken, fully ascend and fully heal, we need to learn even more about ourselves.  Find those mirrors and LOOK into them.  Really SEE who you are and why.  I know the why and I thought by knowing the why I would heal.  I felt as if I had healed. Until it popped up again. Oops…guess it wasn’t that easy and I needed to dive deeper into the root of it. We all have the Male and Female energies, the Yin and the Yang energies, the Light and the Dark energies.  And there is both the “good” and the “bad” in these energies.  Find the “bad”, the “dark”, “the negative”, and then find the positive side of these issues, because something “bad” for us leads us to an understanding of a better way.  Such as understanding which foods are “bad” for us, leads us to better choices, and thus better health.  Find the “light” within the “dark”, because to see the candle flame is all it’s glory, it must be seen against a dark background.  Our shadows are created by the shining Light behind, and some of these shadows are very beautiful outlines of our nature. Find the “negative”, as the positive is attracted to the negative side of the magnet.  We are both Light & Dark.  Find your Shadows, Transform your Dark by attracting the Light to it , Shining the Light upon it and you will Heal and Shine even more Brightly in Love & Light.

If interested, this is the description of my “Capriquarians” I am referring to…pretty much sums me up!

http://www.tarot.com/astrology/capricorn-aquarius-cusp

Look at Your Beautiful Shadow and Shine Light Upon it!

Namaste!

Espavo!

©2014

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