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Live your Life


Step out of other peoples’ lives and into your own.

Do not be concerned with what others are or are not doing in any given situation. Whether it’s a friend, co-worker, loved one, or for that matter a complete stranger, we must disconnect from being involved with what others are choosing to do, especially when it causes lower vibrational feelings within us.  What are lower vibrational energies?  Undue stress, anxiety, guilt, manipulated, fear, hurt, anger, sadness, negativity, judgement, or any other feeling which causes us to feel imbalanced or uncomfortable.

When we are focusing more on others than on ourselves, we are missing the point of life, missing opportunities for growth and missing what it is our life is meant to be. Remembering we are all one, yet we walk different paths, allows us to detach from drama we may otherwise be pulled into. We are here to help others as best we can, but we are not meant to own their issues or fix their issues for them.  Of course if we are fixing problems for others, we are taking away their right to learn their lessons.  They may not choose to learn their lessons, and a choice is a choice.  Just ensure you are not taking away their power to correct an issue, learn a lesson or miss an opportunity for growth.

We are meant to do our best to guide or help someone who is asking for it, yet, disengage when our feelings start to become imbalanced. Remember, the other person needs to want to help themselves and do the work. Helping others or being concerned about others without creating havoc, worry or stress within ourselves keeps us in balance.  There are many people who truly are working towards bettering themselves through growth, those who are doing what needs to be done to transform who they are, what they do and how they act and feel.

If we start to feel another’s actions is lowering our vibrations, it’s time to let go and allow the other person to find their own way. Perhaps another will be able to help. Perhaps not. It is up to that person, not us. Sometimes loving and caring for another means doing it from afar without interactions with them. This is for your personal health and well-being. While you go about your daily interactions with others, ask yourself “is this my situation to deal with or theirs?” If you feel peace with the answer, you know you made the right choice.

For those of us who are light workers, guides, earth angels and givers, pay special attention to how you feel when interacting with others.  It is easier for us to get wrapped up in others dramas.  We need to understand when we are feeling someone else’s feelings versus feeling our own. We need to fully go within and determine whether or not we are living our life, or living someone else’s. The answers we receive to help balance us and bring us back to ourselves and our paths will leave us feeling lighter, happier, balanced, peaceful and in complete harmony.

Live your Life!

Namaste! Espavo!

Note: I’m available via phone or Skype for distance Reiki sessions, Tarot Card readings or intuitive guidance (life coaching).  If you would like guidance in any of these areas, please contact me at heatherclang@yahoo.com to schedule an appointment. Investment in you: $1/minute, prepaid via PayPal.


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Creating A New Life

It’s the first of a new month & new year, blessed with a new moon.  This moon in Capricorn is rather significant in that it’s the perfect time to start working on creating the foundation of what you want to create in your life.  It’s time to ask yourself “what is it I wish to create?”  Then start!Slide1

Do you wish to enter a new career?  Perhaps it’s time to look into schooling, loans and grants.  Perhaps you wish to spend more time with loved ones.  Ask yourself what you can do to create the time you wish.  Do you wish to create more love in your life? Perhaps you love people, and can offer your time, volunteering in assisted living  homes, hospitals or childcare. Spending time with people who do not necessarily have family or friends near them is a wondrous way to create more love in your life.  Many different ways exist to create a life you desire! Do you wish to create more financial flow into your life?  Ask yourself what you love to do, and work towards making that something you can do to create the financial flow!  For example, I work in an office, yet, am also a yoga teacher and a Reiki Master & Teacher.  This is what I’m working on creating…more classes, students & clients to both help myself & them.  I’m also a life coach, which I blend with the Reiki to help you find your blockages, release anything which needs to be released & work with you to heal yourself, mind, body & soul. This is how I’m working to create something more in my life…more financial flow, more health & wellness, more love.  So, work at it each and every day.

Every day presents its own energies to work towards something new.

Remember, even though it’s the beginning of a new month & new year, each and every day can be the one to start anew & fresh. We are all blessed with 24 hours to work at something we really wish to do…whatever it is. This influx of energy today is special, yet, every day is special and can be used to your benefit.  Feel the energies at play each day.  How do you do this?  Ask others how they are feeling. Look into astrology. Go within your own being and ask yourself how you feel.  Then, use that energy positively to continue to build the foundation you want, and as the days progress, you will find the rest of the life you wish being built…being created…and being lived!

May you use the energies of each day to build, create & live your new life!





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