Some things must crumble to make space for new things.
Within our lives, we have choices to let go of old, outdated beliefs, ideas, opinions, thoughts, places, people, etc. This does not mean they did not serve us in a positive way, because they did. Remember, we should always be grateful for everything and everyone in our lives, as they are part of our life lessons. It is through taking the time and effort to learn our life lessons, especially the most challenging ones, which allow us to heal and grow into a better and more beautiful version of ourselves.
This also does not necessarily mean you lose something good, you have gained something even better in the experience such as wisdom, joy, peace or a myriad of others. Each time the old energy dies out, a rebirth is eminent. This rebirth has endless possibilities and opportunities for a deep & profound transformation, with the ability to create so many new, fresh circumstances in our lives, because we have become the version of ourselves which is now ready for this incredible opportunity to present itself. This also allows others to see what we have accomplished, allowing others to understand the ultimate benefits of releasing the old, and perhaps finding the courage to do it themselves.
We need to let go of who we think we are due to past situations.
We need to release our protective shells and our reactions we carried around with us for too long. It is past our experiences which have defined who we are, yet, when we realize we no longer wish to be defined that way, we are able to shed that layer, allowing it to crumble away, to reveal this fresher, newer and more brilliant version of ourselves. When we recognize we are not living the life we truly wish to live because we continue to carry around armor and past pains, we can let those things completely go. It does not mean it did not happen and it is not a part of who we are. It means we have been able to use the past experiences to create a better life for ourselves. This better life can entail so much, including a better relationship with ourselves to then create deeper and better relationships with others. It can allow us to live our passions as our career. It can bring us to a profound and deep understanding of life, as we detach from others’ dramas and issues, not allowing these to affect us adversely anymore.
Release beliefs, opinions and habits which no longer serve our true wishes and needs.
I recently realized I would eat whatever was served me, whether I liked it or not. Now, I actually like and enjoy nearly all types of foods, and have a rather large palate. However, there are items I simply do not care to eat. Fast food, for example. Or fatty meats. I am also not a fan of squash. I was taught to believe we need to be respectful of others, and part of that was being polite enough to eat whatever someone cooked for us. Yet, if we are to respect ourselves, and what we truly need, we need to speak our truth. Speaking our truth entails releasing old beliefs. I am a respectful and polite person, yet, I needed to respect myself and my bodies needs and wants. I enjoy cooking what I like to eat, but if someone doesn’t like something, I will not prepare it for them. And, that is being more respectful of others and ourselves as we find similar food items we enjoy, versus allowing the other person to think you like it, which is more of a fallacy, or a lie. Lying is not being our authentic self. We need to be our authentic self to have true happiness, peace & Love.
When someone exited my life earlier this year, I felt as if my life had crumbled. I was told a new person or newness will come in. As I worked on healing myself through using my own services and others such as , Reiki, Akashic Records, Yoga, life coaching and meditation, I started to release old beliefs, opinions and habits which no longer served me. I started uncovering, releasing and healing from issues in my past and past lives. I started to awaken and transform. I am continuing to do work on myself as I have for many years, as the more we do, the more enlightened we become, as layers and layers peel away.
Over the course of these past several months, I had the thought: “What if the new person is me? What if I’m the new person in my life? This new person being a more brilliant version of me?” This was the time I needed to release the “old” me and embrace the “new” me. Releasing, healing and transforming myself is bringing in many new, fresh opportunities and people into my life. Others are noticing the changes and helping me on my journey. People from the past are also helping me, seeing the renewed me. Our lives will crumble at different times bringing us new lessons. I am once again rebuilding with trust, belief & faith that whatever I encounter, receive and obtain will be to help me continue to Shine my inner Light brighter and brighter each and every day.
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